Skincare saviours for spotty skin

When I was 14 years old and on antibiotics for a case of v spotty skin, I never imagined I’d be writing a blog post on how to keep those pesky spots away at the ripe old age of twenty three, almost ten years later.

But, here we are, a decade on, and my skin has really seen it all, from doctor-prescribed creams and medication, to homemade apple cider vinegar face masks. Whilst I can’t say that I have glowing, crystal-clear skin, my complexion is definitely the clearest and healthiest it’s ever been, and it’s all thanks to a few miracle products (and probs, also puberty).


Having been scolded by my best friend (and skin fairy godmother) for using makeup wipes as the first step of my nightly skincare routine, I recently switched to micellar water (late to the game, right?). Not only are wipes shit for your skin, they’re also shit for the environment. So, combined with my machine-washable, reusable cotton pads (best purchase of 2019 – find the exact ones I use here ), I can feel really smug taking my makeup off, knowing the planet and my complexion are benefitting. {{Affiliate link below}}.

I use the Combination Skin Micellar Water as my skin is (shocker) combination – dry in the winter months but oily all year round on my T-zone. The Garnier Micellar Water takes makeup off really quickly, and you only need a lil splash of the stuff for every cleanse, meaning the 400ml bottle lasts for months.


My mum and sisters recommended I try the Elemis skincare range a couple of years back, and whilst my skin is loving me for it, my bank account is not so much. At £44 a tub, the Pro-Collagen Cleansing Balm is not one of the cheapest cleansers out there, however I would go as far to say it’s the best I’ve ever used. It smells gorgeous, and thanks to its super oily base, my skin always feel supple, glowy and ultra-cleansed, without drying it out at all. Also worth noting that I’m still making my way through the pot of balm I received for my birthday last October, thanks to only needing pea-sized portions for every cleanse. {{Affiliate link below}}.


Aforementioned best friend and skin fairy godmother introduced me to ‘The Ordinary‘ a few months back – though I don’t doubt I would have found it eventually as it seems like everyone is using at least one ‘The Ordinary’ product in their current skincare routine.

On first viewing the website (and as of recently their counters in Boots wahoooo!), the range looks like a mix between a potions cupboard and a chemists. In essence, it’s really hard to figure what each peptide, retinoid, SPF and ‘direct acid’ does, and to be honest, I could still really do with further clarification on this.

However, trusting the few reviews I read online, and recommendations of friends already using these brand, I purchased a bottle of the Hyaluronic Acid 2% + B5, the Niacinamide 10% + Zinc 1%, and some 100% Organic Rose Hip Seed Oil, all priced at between £5-9 per product.

I’m currently using the Hyaluronic Acid morning and night, and the Niacinamide every night (after makeup remover, cleanser and Hyaluronic Acid) and both have cleared my skin up unbelievably, without making it feel tight or dry in the morning. You only need a drop or two of each, and whilst my skin felt pretty loaded with product the first time, both sink in really well overnight.

The Rose Hip Seed Oil I am less sold on, I have to admit. Being naturally oily, the Rose Hip Oil felt slightly too heavy on my skin, and so I only really use it if I’m feeling in need of a pamper or huge surge of hydration (read: hungover).

For such a low price point though, these lil gems are well worth a try, particularly if you can get down to your local Boots counter and get someone to explain to you what the F you wanna be putting on your face.


Finally – gimmeee all the moisture!!!! I’ve only recently started using this moisturiser but I’m super pleased with it so far. Smells delicious, and contains bundles of Vitamin C, known for effects such as brightening, boosting collagen and fighting inflammation. Only £11 at Boots at the moment too!

So there you have it – some skincare skin-spo if you’re feeling in a rut with your own routine.

What are your all time favourite skincare products?


Let’s talk about FOMO

It’s 8pm on a Friday night following a busy week and I’m in my pyjamas. A night filled of catching up on TV, a couple of G&Ts with my mum and an early night is in store. Sounds dreamy, right?

But my anxiety levels are rising, as I begin scrambling around asking every single friend in close proximity what their plans are, and whether they fancy a ‘cheeky pub trip’. Friends begin replying detailing their plans, or (shock, horror) declining my invitation for a quiet night in. I’m starting to panic.

And then there’s a bite.

A couple of the boys are going to the pub – but not til 10pm – and in the next town over, a good 15 minute drives away. I’m knackered, I’m makeup-less and sporting my finest fleecey PJs, and essentially, have no desire to drive to the pub for one drink.

After practicing an inordinate amount of self-control I managed to convince myself to stay on my sofa, but it didn’t end there. I took to Instagram (bad move, Abs) scrolling through posts of parties, nights out, lovely dinners out – I was even feeling jealous of the people having cosy nights in, just as I was. Why didn’t I have cool plans? Why wasn’t I invited to any of these nights out? What if all my friends are about to have the best nights of their lives this evening and I’m doing absolutely big fat nothing?

It genuinely was making me feel quite worked up and anxious, and I went to bed feeling disappointed in myself and my lack of cool plans, and my inability to be doing something every minute of every day of every week.

The irony is, I woke up the next morning feeling like I handled the whole thing relatively well. From the age of 17, I’d been cramming my weekends with ‘stuff’. I spent at least half of my time at university not at university – always seeing someone, unable to stop making plans, never mind decline them, and avoiding a chill weekend at home like the plague. Socialising and doing cool things felt like more of a job than my dissertation. I was suffering daily from errand paralysis, unable to make the 15 minute walk to the post office to return my ASOS order and was completely exhausted: emotionally, mentally and financially. I only recognised how destructive the lifestyle I was living was until I moved back home and I realised I was close to burnout, and actually quite mentally ill. 

Fucking millennials, right? Only our generation could make themselves mentally ill from the ‘fear of missing out’, or FOMO, as it’s more commonly called.

But we’re the most vulnerable generation to the fear, in a culture of excessive social media usage, hustle porn and so many god damn choices. I log into Instagram on a Saturday night and there is an endless stream of friends, acquaintances (and complete strangers) at a rave, having nights with their friends, travelling round Australia, at gigs, out for dinner and more. Hours worth of content just waiting for me to watch and decide whose life I’d like the most that evening.

We are the generation that were brought up being told we could do anything, and thanks to more opportunities being available than ever before, we are doing exactly that. Comparing ourselves to other people our age can therefore leave us feeling completely and utterly worthless.

Sure, I’m doing well at my job, making time to travel and see my friends and family, and I’m probably the healthiest (mentally and physically) I’ve been in a long time. But a friend from school who side-hustles a successful lifestyle blog is currently on a #gifted meal in London with her boyfriend, another friend is travelling around South East Asia without a care in the world, and Kylie Jenner is now the youngest ever self-made billionaire…and she’s younger than me.

You can see then, why comparing yourself to your other twenty-something friends (or strangers) is completely useless but so easy to do.

Research has found that (unsurprisingly) limiting social media usage results in significant reductions in loneliness, anxiety and fear of missing out. More interestingly, studies have also found that fear of missing out and social comparison orientation (which refers to the tendency to compare oneself with others) jointly contribute to decreases in well-being (loneliness, anxiety and depression) and increased social media engagement.

Scientific proof therefore, that if you’re feeling a bit rubbish you should whack your phone on ‘do not disturb’ mode and try to resist an evening of comparison and self-hatred (though tempting, I know). You’ll feel a lot more able to hack the ‘best night’ posts in the morning when the ‘gram is a bit quieter and you wake up smug after a good night’s rest.

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The only dropping I’ll be doing this Saturday evening.

FOMO has always been around, and to be honest, I imagine it will only get worse as social media becomes more of a necessity in everyone’s lives. Finding ways to manage such anxieties are therefore vital.

For me, allowing myself to regularly take a night to do absolutely naff-all and trying not to stuff my weekends with plans, errands and big expectations has been a game-changer. I value and enjoy my plans a lot more when they do come around, and feel a lot more able to cope when it feels like everyone’s doing amazing things and I’ve spent the evening laying on the sofa with my dogs. Trying to bear in mind that Instagram is just a highlights reel is also a great comfort.

Remember that the world’s not going to stop if you take a night off, your friends will still be your friends if you don’t make it to that party or pub trip, and no-one actually cares what you’re doing on Instagram because we’re all narcissistic millennial bastards. (Joking. Kind of.)

So indulge in that night in, turn your phone off and toast that glass of wine (that hasn’t cost you £5) to no mo’ FOMO.


Five podcasts to leave you feeling inspired in 2019

Ah the podcast hype – the newest way to learn new things, relax and get inspired all at the same time.


I’ll admit I wasn’t convinced at first either.

Firstly, the idea of having to concentrate on people talking, let alone attempting to do this whilst doing something else at the same time, sounded like it would take a lot of energy and concentration.

I struggle to process words very easily. I am that person renowned amongst friends, family and colleagues to hum in perfect pitch to every song that comes on the radio, but not know a single lyric (I must be a fun person to sit next to at work).

Alongside the 2019 societal pressure to keep up to date with the latest books, do well in my job, socialise, exercise and squeeze in that all-important down time to binge watch a Netflix series (Sex Education, anyone?) as well as broaden my horizons with a couple of podcast series, quite honestly felt overwhelming.

However, perhaps one of the reasons I’ve come to love podcasts so much is that they are multitasker and productive freak’s dream. After a couple of times practicing ‘tuning in’ to listening to two people have a conversation and actually process what they’re saying, I’ve actually found podcasts to be the perfect background soundtrack to:

  • life admin
  • quiet afternoons at work
  • cleaning my room
  • cooking dinner
  • solo dog walks
  • solo coffee dates
  • solo shopping

Realising I wasn’t the only one who has recently made way for a 30 min slot in their day to keep up with their favourite podcast, I did some digging into the recent podcast-listening statistics. Ofcom data confirms that podcasts are booming all over the UK, with almost 6 million adults tuning in each week, and the number of weekly podcast listeners has almost doubled in the past five years.

Whether you’ve never listened to a podcast before and are looking for a new show to spark off your inspiration, or you’re a seasoned pod-professional looking for your next recommendation, check out my favourite podcasts to leave you feeling inspired in 2019…

heads up: I realise that being a 22 year old female, not all the podcasts below will appeal to everyone, so I have popped some notable mentions in some  different podcast genres that I have heard so many good things about (and are planning on listening to myself!!!).

Ctrl Alt Delete

I was drawn to this show at the very beginning of my podcast journey, when it kept popping up on recommendation posts as a great podcast for women in digital, and there began my love affair with Emma Gannon.

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Emma’s created over 180 episodes, with a hugely varied cast, meaning I’m still working my way through them. In her podcast eps, recommended particularly for women in digital or creative fields, Emma interviews people she admires about themes such as creativity, the internet, social media, feminism, identity, mental health, careers and everything in between.

This is hands down the most inspiring podcast I’ve listened to, and every time I finish listening to an episode I feel like I’m ready to start writing the next bestseller, lead a new social movement, and write up the business plan for my new startup, all at the same time. It was super hard to pick only 3 starter episodes, so if you’re interested in listening, definitely have a flick through the episodes as you’re bound to find someone you love on the guest list.

Top three eps to start on:

Desert Island Discs

The classic. The universal king of all radio shows. BBC Radio 4’s Desert Island Discs is the absolute gem of British radio show turned podcast, in which guests share the soundtrack of their lives, and reveal which eight tracks, book and luxury they would take to a desert island.

With possibly the most extensive, star-studded guest list I’ve ever come across, I was surprised to hear the deep insights into each guest’s life, from what first comes across as a relatively superficial concept. I absolutely adore music, and hold strong memories and attachments of various albums and songs to periods of my own life, which is why I love hearing of the tracks that have accentuated other people’s lives.

Again, with such an incredible cast and SO many episodes to choose from, it really was difficult to pick only three episodes to start on. However, having forced myself to pick three, my favourite episodes are all with guests that are so different to the stereotypical founder/influencer/girlboss/activist podcast guest I am used to. My top three episodes included guests that surprised me with their life stories and insights, but I’ve yet to find a Desert Island Disc episode I haven’t enjoyed, and for this reason, I would highly, highly recommend listening to this show.

Top three eps to start on:

How to Fail with Elizabeth Day

How To Fail With Elizabeth Day is a podcast that celebrates the things that haven’t gone right. In each episode, guests explore what their failures have taught them about life and ‘how to succeed better’.

In an era of positive curation, where maintaining a flawless impression of our lives (both online and offline) is the done thing, real discussions around failure are few. Having personally struggled with the concept of ‘failure’, as a result of being a self-confessed perfectionist and over-thinker, I find this podcast so very refreshing and humanising.

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Yoohoo! It’s me! Just wanted to let you know that Season 3 of How To Fail With Elizabeth Day starts this Wednesday 2nd January 2019. This season will have 10 WHOLE NEW EPISODES, including our first ever live recording on 5th Feb with Kristen Roupenian who wrote the viral short story sensation, Cat Person, (if you want to book tickets, do visit the @foylesforbooks website). I’m so excited to share with you a wonderful line-up of new guests. Make sure you’ve subscribed to the podcast via iTunes so you’re the first to get new episodes…and while you’re there, please feel free to rate and review. Never sure what that does, tbh, but apparently it’s important and I love reading your comments anyway. And thank you @idlechitchat for the gorgeous illustration #podcast #howtofailwithelizabethday #failure #success #interview #writersofinstagram #newseason #newyear #2019 #idlechitchat

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Listening to successful authors, activists, musicians and more speak so candidly about their failures and regrets, reveals such a personal and human side to the ‘celebrities’ who often seem to be living a life a million miles away from your own. This podcast is also a nice reminder to trust that in every ‘failure’ is a valuable learning, and to not be afraid of imperfection.

Top three eps to start on:

*Side note: I didn’t think that when I put this episode on whilst on my lunch break walk to Sainsbury’s one day, I’d be quietly crying at the salad bar 15 minutes later. Listen with caution (and tissues).

How I Built This

The only US podcast to make the list (I clearly prefer the soothing soundtrack of a stuttering British voice), but it’s a gooden.

In this series, Guy Raz dives into the stories behind some of the world’s most famous companies. ‘How I Built This’ interviews innovators, and entrepreneurs on their journeys from the initial idea to the movements they’re known for today. This one I find takes a little more concentration to listen to – whether that’s because of the accent, or a slightly more detailed and factual narrative – I find I prefer to listen to this podcast when I’m not distracted by anything else. Despite this, this podcast is a real ‘rags to riches’ inspiration and it’s so interesting to hear the humble beginnings and personal stories behind some of the world’s best known brands.

Top three eps to start on:

Love Stories

Being the biggest Dolly Alderton fan in the whole world, naturally her podcast series named ‘Love Stories’ was going to be in my top list. Originally released to tie in with the release of her debut book (and THE best book I read in 2018), Everything I Know About Love, Dolly talks to guests about their most defining relationships, and the loves of their lives.

(Full disclosure: I also religiously tune into The High Low, Dolly’s other pop culture podcast series with Pandora Sykes, but I thought it would be unfair to waffle on about two of Dolly’s podcasts.)

Anyway, back to Love Stories. The types of love discussed are not limited to romantic; love of family members, friends, careers and so much more are expressed in each episode. This is honestly one of the most heart-warming and uplifting series I’ve listened to, and have adored listening to this on many a Sunday morning to restore my faith, in love/life/human beings.

Top three eps to start on:

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❤️💓LOVE STORIES WITH JESSIE CAVE💓I couldn’t have been happier to chat with the writer performer and artist @jessiecave, who was always one of my dream guests for series two. I have loved her work for years, particularly its exploration of insecurity, jealousy, inadequacy and codependency in love. She is admirably and unfalteringly honest – in her work, life and in our conversation for this episode – which I am always deeply grateful for. We talk teenage dreaming, a place of fantasy in everyday life, her unrequited love affair with acting, how our parents shape us forever, her one night stand that turned into a great love and a family and her latest show one woman show Sunrise – a hilarious and heartbreaking real life story of letting go of someone you love, but cannot be with. Link in bio. (Sunrise is about to go on tour and I can’t recommend it highly enough. It was one of the most moving hours I’ve ever spent in the theatre).

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Which podcast shows do you listen to? What are your favourite episodes of all time?